Britton’s High Achievers Mastermind
MEBES Overview

Early in my career, my work with clients was usually based on the prevailing medical or therapeutic model, because that’s all that really existed. Even though I was certified as a Sex Therapist from the Institute in San Francisco, it didn’t feel like enough to serve my clients.
Honestly, I was so dissatisfied with that approach. I knew that people’s sexual concerns didn’t deserve to be labeled dysfunctions and then dismissed by the mental health or medical professionals from whom they were seeking help!
I had serious doubts that the traditional, pathologizing model was actually effective in helping clients resolve those concerns, especially in the long-term.
That’s when I started developing my unique approach, which filled me with such joy as I saw it—over and over and over again—helping my clients achieve their sexual goals and find the sexual pleasure and joy they’d been missing.
I call it my MEBES Signature System. MEBES stands for Mind, Emotions, Body/Body Image or Behavior, Energy, and Spirit. It represents the five areas of the sexual self that can become blocked for individuals or relationships, and it provides a repeatable, proven, and effective way of helping your clients work through those blocks to claim their ideal sex life.

Now I’ve got something really special to share with you.
Over the course of five videos, I’m going to give you a solid introduction to this holistic model I developed for working with clients who show up with sexuality-related concerns.
Regardless if you ever enroll in the Certified Sex Coach™ training program I developed at Sex Coach U or my latest offering, a 9-month clinical supervision and mentorship small group for sexuality professionals (Britton’s High Achievers Mastermind), THIS free, mini training will give you a solid foundation for learning how to apply my sex positive, holistic, client-centered approach with all of your clients.
And if you ARE a Sex Coach U student or graduate, these videos will be an excellent refresher, and you may even get a fresh perspective on the concepts.
Watch the video below for the overview of my MEBES Signature System. In subsequent videos, I’ll share more details about each element.
Your clinical work is about to be enriched and your clients will experience more powerful, rapid results.

I hope you enjoyed my introduction to the MEBES Signature System.
Does the idea of working holistically with your clients appeal to you?
Do you agree that our sexuality cannot be confined to the bedroom, but is actually interwoven into every aspect of our lives?
In my next video (see below), we’re going to delve into the Mind and how the mental realm can contribute to a person’s sexual blockages.
You’ll see how I use the framework of the MEBES model to work through those issues that stem from our thinking self and get in the way of our sexual pleasure.
Ready to dive in with me?

Wasn’t the information about the mental realm in the last video juicy and thought-provoking? (See what I did there?)
Remember how I mentioned in the first video that the MEBES model can actually be used in other areas of our lives?
I wonder if you suffer from any mental blocks in your life as a sexological entrepreneur.
Do any of these sound familiar?
You struggle with not feeling good enough or like you don’t know enough to be truly effective with your clients.
You’re stuck in Imposter Syndrome, worried that at any moment, you’ll be found out for the fraud that you sometimes think you are.
You think you don’t do enough for your clients.
You feel behind the curve in terms of keeping up with current issues, trends, and language.
You’re out of fresh ideas for working with clients in new, creative ways.
You are bored with your work and wish you could find new mental/intellectual challenges to re-ignite your passion.
You lack the knowledge for how to succeed or scale up your business.
Working with a mentor experienced in applying the MEBES model could help you resolve all of these mental blocks getting in the way of your success as a sexological clinician. That’s part of what you’ll get from participating in my new passion project: Britton’s High Achievers Mastermind.
We’ll talk more about that later. For now, I want to share the next video with you. We’re going to the realm of the heart: our Emotions. Let’s explore how our feelings can interfere with our sexual pleasure and how the MEBES model can help our clients resolve those issues.

Oh, the realm of the heart is so powerful, isn’t it? And our feelings can be so BIG! When we’re stuck emotionally, that can really get in the way of who we’re meant to be.
As clinical sexologists, we often feel inadequate. Sexuality is such a vast topic and new information is coming out all the time. It can feel impossible to stay on top of it all and figure out how to integrate it into the best care of our clients.
If we don’t engage in enough self-care or struggle with codependency, we can also become burnt-out. We might feel irritated with our clients or struggle with letting go of the worry about our clients. We can suffer from low energy, low sexual desire, and high stress.
We might feel worried about our business (being an entrepreneur can be so challenging). We fear being a failure at business. Or we might even fear becoming successful.
Notice how there are often mental elements lurking amongst many of these feeling states…the MEBES model is circular and holistic, after all, and helps us conceptualize the inter-relatedness of all our parts.
Finding a small, intimate, and tight-knit circle of your peers and a compassionate and experienced mentor can make all the difference in helping you resolve your Emotional blocks to success as a sexuality professional.
Britton’s High Achievers Mastermind will also provide a home for your heart, so you’ll never feel alone or lonely in this profession ever again.
But let’s move on to the next element in the MEBES Signature System: the B, which stands for the body, body image, and behavior. This is of course a primary realm for those of us who work in sexuality fields, which are so body-focused.

It’s obvious how the Body realm shows up in our sex lives, of course. This is a primary focus of our clinical work.
But what about in our business? If we were walking the MEBES Wheel together to evaluate where you’re stuck in business, we might discover how much stress and tension you’re holding in your body.
These are dark times, and if you’re like me, you are an empath who feels everything going on in the world and you take it in.
This can have a serious impact on your body. And on your sex life. And in your business.
You may be experiencing fatigue, tight muscles, weight loss or weight gain. You may have lost your sexual appetite.
And those sleepless nights spent worrying about your money flow, how to get more clients in, how to take care of all the little things constantly pulling at your attention…all of that contributes to your sense of overwhelm and your body’s stress response.
You might even be dealing with a serious health condition caused or exacerbated by stress!
It’s time to find methods to protect yourself. You need to figure out how to implement Extreme Self Care. And it’s absolutely essential for you to develop a support system of like-minded, like-hearted peers who will encourage you to take care of yourself.
You know how airplane attendants instruct you to use an oxygen mask on yourself first in the event of cabin depressurization—BEFORE helping anyone else, including your child? This is because if you pass out, you’ll be of no help to anyone.
The same is true in all aspects of your life. You can’t pour from an empty cup.
Britton’s High Achievers Mastermind will help you learn your own Extreme Self Care regimen and how to integrate it into your life. And the support system you’ll gain will ensure you can prevent physical burnout and the negative health consequences of long-term stress.
Plus you’ll be empowered to show up for your clients as your best self, which allows you to support them in embracing their best self.
But let’s go ahead and finish our journey around the MEBES Wheel. Our next video will introduce you to both the Energy and Spirit realms, where so much magic can happen!
Check it out: